I found something disturbing out about my brother . I had just gotten out of a 4 year relationship (for the better) and when it ended I didn’t think about it or get upset about it for a second. My friends family really anyone in my life couldn’t have been happier for me. To make a long story short the relationship went downhill when I had moved out of my parents house and she moved herself in with me as she told her job she had been diagnosed with autism and she had to take time off that ended up lasting a year. Well a few months after ending the relationship I got a text from a mutual friend that said my brother had been reaching out to my ex and trying to chat with her.
I wouldn’t think anything of it because they were relatively close but what he had said to her / asked of her was something I would never think of. He asked her 4 separate times to pay her to have sex with him going into detail about what he wanted to do offering as much as a thousand dollars. I just still can’t wrap my head around it. He has a girlfriend who knows my ex and has never shown any interest in my ex as far as I know until now. It’s been a little over a year after finding this out and I just still can’t wrap my head around it. I’ve entered into a new relationship that is very healthy and I’m actually happy but should I be worried this will happen again?
I know she is mentally ill that’s never been a question I knew and accepted it before we entered the relationship and it wasn’t a problem as she took care of herself but as the relationship continued she stopped completely. Made excuses for everything stopped doing basic self care like showering brushing her hair which I tried to step up and do for her until it became too much between that and work. She never had an OF or did any form or sex work to my knowledge but again I didn’t have contact with her after the breakup. And my brother is just tougher for me. I know that I need to say something or do something about it just every time I try it never seems right.
