When she started planning her wedding, she thought it would be all about her and her partner. But somehow, her friend took over, insisting the entire event had to be 100% vegan. At first, it seemed like the friend was just passionate about beliefs, but as the pressure mounted, it became clear there was another reason behind the push—one that had nothing to do with ethics.
Talk to the friend in advance.
- If you sense tension (like your friend being unusually pushy about the menu), pull her aside before the event. A quick “Is something else going on here?” might have helped her admit she was worried about her boyfriend’s reaction, giving you a chance to handle it beforehand.
Move on quickly.
- When something embarrassing happens, the faster you redirect attention, the better. If someone disrupts your wedding, immediately start the next event (first dance, cake cutting, anything!) to shift the focus back where it belongs.
Reevaluate your friendship.
- Your friend was in a tough position, but she also let things escalate. If she’s truly sorry and this was a one-time mistake, you can move past it. But if she’s minimizing what happened or blaming you, ask yourself if this friendship still adds value to your life.
Being vegan means choosing your own diet, not forcing it on others—just as no one should be forced to eat meat. Respect should go both ways.
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